How conservative the Japanese people really is? And the government?

It’s very common for a girl/ woman to ask a boy/ man to be her boyfriend.

This is a very vague question. But considering the asker’s comment on Mr. Nakajima’s answer, your interest seems to be in sex-related matters (I don’t think it’s the only indicator of conservative/ progressive, though).

Yaoi

Why did lobsters evolve bright colors if they are neither poisonous nor venomous?

They don’t tease or beat up cross-dressed people on the road.

In the old era, gay relationships were very common and were even praised among the privileged social classes, such as Samurai and monks.

Visual-kei

How do you deal with a neighbor stealing?

They don’t have the value that “guys must be macho.”

They don’t bring around their mates everywhere, which means they don’t worry about being single, gay, or whatever because no one cares about whom others are having/ not having sex with.

We don’t instantly tie it with sex when a father and his very young daughter are taking a bath together.

Why are terrible, boring art pieces done by famous people worth so much while beautiful pieces done by amateurs are worthless?

“None of my business” is the common attitude.

They don’t have the so-called “couple culture” seen in many Western countries.

They were very similar to the bromance of today but accompanied by sexual intercourse.

Do crossdressers like wearing pantyliners and tampons in their butts?

I sometimes feel people from the West are obsessed with those “gender” and “sex” things too much. Let’s think about something else sometimes. It’s unhealthy.

How do you see these below?

Moreover, buff guys are often avoided for their narcissism.

What are you struggling with in your life? What would you like to have instead?

I’ve heard it’s always the male side that is expected to take a move in some countries. It’s not the case in Japan.